DO I HAVE ANY PLACE IN THE FAMILY?
The story of his life of 11years is like a very big picture which yet to be filled up with colors in it.
He is the one who is trying his best to manage his life. According to him he has a very difficult life.
He is the one who is trying his best to tackle the situations created by people around him.
He is the one who is trying to prove that he is inquisitive.He is the one who is also trying to prove that he is the smart chap.
He is the one who is trying and searching constantly what others feel about him. And what others think about him.
He also wants answers on his questions as,Whether he is elder one in the family or a child in the family?
He is only 11 years old and 2yrs and 3months elder than his little sister.
The whole story of his life of 11years is like a very big picture which yet to be filled up with colors in it. Family is little aware so took step forward.
He found discrepancy in what they want from him to understanding him. How actually he is and he wants from his life to what they expect from him.
They are adults but he is bright smart too. They are busy but he has his things to do too. They are ready to understand him but only when he agrees with their thoughts but they are not trying to explain him why? He is the one who believes in logic. They don’t think they need to explain it to him every time. They don’t have time; very busy; upbringing of another child and businesses of the family.
He also has found out his own ways to resolve these issues around him. He says everyone compares so do I. “ You give her then give it to me too. You praise her then praise me too. You understand her and not me why? What did I do?”
It was asked me by his parents Is there any medicine to mould him? To make him listen to us? To know him we are adults and we think always great and better? though My eyebrows are up automatically, good part is the family is open.
What do you think friends, if ever you have any similar situation like this in your life or practice; I am trying my best to help the family. All your suggestions are welcomed.
